Why do Nice Guys Finish Last…?
I’m pretty sure most people if not everyone has heard the saying “nice guys finish last”, well it tends to be true more times than not, so I guess it’s safe to say the generalization is accurate. Different people come up with different explanations for why this tends to be the case, however, I have never heard an analogy as good as the one I heard a couple of days ago after my cousins’ baby shower, and I’m sure most people that read this will agree with me that this makes sense, well let me get into it.
Contrary to popular belief, the problem -if you want to call it that- is not with the “nice guys”, it’s with the women or girls. Women by default, conciously or subconciously, are “self centered and egotistical” (in the words of a wise man lol) whether it’s a Fat girl, Skinny Girl, a 1 or a 10, they are all inevitably like that, those are innate features.
Because of this self altruism and ego, having a guy that is naturally nice, generally nice to everyone and nice to them as well doesn’t make them feel special or above their peers in anyway. ‘She’ would rather be with the guy that is a jerk to other women, he even has an edge if he is a jerk to his fellow male compadres (this is how “self centered and egotistical” women are lol), but she want this ”jerk” to treat her differently and be nice to her but a jerk to everyone else – remember this is a 9.5 times out of 10 analogy, there’s always that exception. It gives her this feeling that there is something about her that makes her different, that makes the guy want to settle down with her and it makes her feel special.
Also, women are constantly in competition with their friends and sometimes even their female relatives when it comes to men, conciously or subconciously. There are many examples I can give but I don’t want to put anyone’s business out in the open.But This is partially why there’s the girl code that says friends should not or cannot date the same guy that another friend has dated. Guys don’t have this code, not because we don’t care but because we are not as self centered and egotistic. It’s as simple as that, and this is why nice guys finish last.
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